Are more aquarians shy and sensetive or lively and exhibitionist? Aquarians basically possess strong and attractive personalities. They fall into two principle types: one shy, sensitive, gentle and patient; the other exuberant, lively and exhibitionist, sometimes hiding the considerable depths of their character under a cloak of frivolity.
Its just that all my friends are aquariuses (including me) and their all the lively and exhibitious aquarius
and im the shy one :((((( |
Bethany... you're not alone. I'm the "shy" Aquarian too. And like you, most of the Aquarian friends I've had are the ones who give off a vibe of exuberance and are lively. And funnily enough, our friendship hardly ever lasts for this reason. Because Aquarians are so opinionated, sometimes we turn against each other.
One thing I've found that we all have in common though is that we are professional observers, no other sign can meet our talent of "people watching". It's how you approach others that make each Aquarian different. I will not speak to you if I find you common, surrounded by people, or a comformist. As a result, I don't talk to many... lol.
You, me and Tiacola up there would probably get along fine. :-) |
Shy in real life, but internet exhibitionist? Is it strange to enjoy being a internet exhibitionist, when I am really shy in real life??
I've posted some private pictures of myself online.
Only one person who has access to them, but I love that she looks!
What does this mean? |
| It could be your first step to-wards conquering your shyness.After all everything is one step at a time my friend, only fools rush in! |
Why am I an exhibitionist sexually when I'm really shy all the rest of the time? I'm not actually sure if this actually is 'exhibitionism', but I need to have a huge amount of attention from men, and love to kind of 'perform' for them, especially if they have a weird fetish or they're way too old for me (I'm seventeen, but since 16 is the age of consent where I live I'm not jailbait lol). I'm not happy until they're pretty much obsessed with me, and I'm the centre of their attention all the time, even when I'm not there. I especially like seducing guys who think they can't have me, like my last therapist- he fell in love with me, but he couldn't do anything about it, and ended up running away to france without his wife. I used to be a part-time camgirl and enjoyed it a lot.
(Oh yeah btw, I'm still a virgin, if you can believe it... so please don't reply just to call me a whore or tell me to get help lol I'm horny but I'm not stupid)
That sounds really egotistical (and it is :P I'm a bad person I guess), but if the situation isn't linked to sex in some way, I'm really, really shy. I can't talk to a guy about the weather or make polite conversation. Hell, sometimes I'm too shy to even order something in a restaurant or ask for my stop on the train. This is because I'm extremely anxious & have bipolar, & I was bullied for being jewish when I was little (hence the therapy).
I only feel confident (and then WAY TOO confident) if a guy is hitting on me, if I'm 100% sure he wants me, or if I inadvertently get in a flirty situation with him.
Is there anything in psychology to explain why I might be like this? |
| just enjoy it if you feel so strongly about it just get it out of you're system. If it doesn't go then just go with it, not that im advising you to go leading guys on but remember a lot of men do only want sex so don't be too flattered when they drop their jaw every time you flirt with them in certain manners! |
Do you feel shy/uncomfortable about being bare around others? is it only strangers? people you know? members of the same or opposite sex? why else do you feel shy/uncomfortable? if you are not shy, please explain as well? is anyone an exhibitionist or voyuer or both? when did you realize and what made you realize?
big question only want serious answers. |
| i love to be naked, i have always been this way. i also love to watch others, i have always been a voyuer as well... since i was 5 i have memories of watching porn that i snuck into my room. i love all naked bodies that are enticing. and i love to be watched. i can get off in seconds. i don't have a perfect body anymore, so at times i can be self-conscious, but just as age and guys have chipped away at my body, they've also chipped away at my caring what others think! |
Newly minted exhibitionist? i've always been super super shy and private, but recently i discoverd that i have exhibitionist tendencies!!
i have one friend with whom i share private pictures on-line, and i LOVE that she looks at them!!
Is this totally crazy? |
| Freak! |
Is she a exhibitionist? Is she a exhibitionist?
i always had a doubt about my wife being a exhibitionist.She undresses at any chance she gets & doesnt seem shy. When we were at a Swimming pool, she seemed to enjoy swimming topless while everyone there seemed to have a small suit atleast. At home she prefers many times to be at minimals or topless. When we went on for a picnic with my friends to a falls, she simply started bathing there topless too, while my friends seem enjoying watching her. At times when she opens the door at morning for our gardener or pickingup paper at door, she simply gets out of bed and moves at her minimal or without a top too. Last month when my friend came home, she was coming out of the bathroom fully wet and only with a towel on and greeted him as she crossed us and remained with a tight T shirt that night. I have seen her changing dress with the windows wide open - Is this a habit? is it exhibitionism? |
Maybe it's because we're in general a bit more secularized here than in the us (if thats where you live) - but I don't think that sounds THAT strange. Perhaps I wouldn't open up for the gardener without putting clothes on, but the rest of it..? What's wrong with greeting someone if youre wearing a towel? That's just a REALLY weird thing to react to at all from my point of view..
Perhaps your wife just have very different habits/raising than you, or you have some cultural differences or such..? |
Is she a exhibitionist? i always had a doubt about my wife being a exhibitionist.She undresses at any chance she gets & doesnt seem shy. When we were at a Swimming pool, she seemed to enjoy swimming topless while everyone there seemed to have a small suit atleast. At home she prefers many times to be at minimals or topless. When we went on for a picnic with my friends to a falls, she simply started bathing there topless too, while my friends seem enjoying watching her. At times when she opens the door at morning for our gardener or pickingup paper at door, she simply gets out of bed and moves at her minimal or without a top too. Last month when my friend came home, she was coming out of the bathroom fully wet and only with a towel on and greeted him as she crossed us and remained with a tight T shirt that night. I have seen her changing dress with the windows wide open - Is this a habit? is it exhibitionism? |
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Is my wife a exhibitionist? i always had a doubt about my wife being a exhibitionist.She undresses at any chance she gets & doesnt seem shy. When we were at a Swimming pool, she seemed to enjoy swimming topless while everyone there seemed to have a small suit atleast. At home she prefers many times to be at minimals or topless. When we went on for a picnic with my friends to a falls, she simply started bathing there topless too, while my friends seem enjoying watching her. At times when she opens the door at morning for our gardener or pickingup paper at door, she simply gets out of bed and moves at her minimal or without a top too. Last month when my friend came home, she was coming out of the bathroom fully wet and only with a towel on and greeted him as she crossed us and remained with a tight T shirt that night. I have seen her changing dress with the windows wide open - Is this a habit? is it exhibitionism? |
| You already asked aboiut you getting aroused by other men watching at your sexy dressed wife. And you were asking if she woould be aroused by that. Now you are asking again if your wife is an exhibionist. Who cares? As long as she has a great fugure and she likes to show it and you and I both like it, enjoy it. Have great sex. It doesn't matter how you call it! |
Exhibitionist? nudist? voyeurist(lol thats a word right)? or all? I am not trying to sound perverted but I have been sextn since I was 16 with my 1st love and I am now 20. A crush that I have got irritated receiving some of my photos because we can't really be sexually active yet, I won't allow it. He kind of hurt my feelings it's a habit to me and because he doesn't understand he kind of went off such as what's the point? Now I am curious is this seriously just a bad habit or really the way I am?
Nudist-(non sexual) I've enjoyed being naked since a guy in the house but would still wear clothing. As an adult now in my own house I lounge around naked unless I have company. I don't share my body with anyone in person unless they are a fellow nudist or a boyfriend.
Voyeurist- I have fantasies of watching live sex such as gay men together and some guy I'm attracted to with someone else
Exhibitionist- Sending off my nude photos to male close friends I send them when I'm having an insecure day(battled small bouts of teenage depression) and need some attention BUT I hate receiving compliments I feel real shy or modest about it after it gets sent. Also I've had sex/sex acts on webcam a few times.
Or maybe I like to experiment just playful?
PLEASE NO IGNORANT PEOPLE AND NO I'M NOT A TROLL JUST WONDERING WHERE I FIT |
| You are who you are and as long as it makes you happy why worry - Be true to yourself P&P :-) |
Voyeurist?exhibitionist?nudist… or all? I am not trying to sound perverted but I have been sextn since I was 16 with my 1st love and I am now 20. A crush that I have got irritated receiving some of my photos because we can't really be sexually active yet, I won't allow it. He kind of hurt my feelings it's a habit to me and because he doesn't understand he kind of went off such as what's the point? Now I am curious is this seriously just a bad habit or really the way I am?
Nudist-(non sexual) I've enjoyed being naked since a guy in the house but would still wear clothing. As an adult now in my own house I lounge around naked unless I have company. I don't share my body with anyone in person unless they are a fellow nudist or a boyfriend.
Voyeurist- I have fantasies of watching live sex such as gay men together and some guy I'm attracted to with someone else
Exhibitionist- Sending off my nude photos to male close friends I send them when I'm having an insecure day(battled small bouts of teenage depression) and need some attention BUT I hate receiving compliments I feel real shy or modest about it after it gets sent. Also I've had sex/sex acts on webcam a few times.
Or maybe I like to experiment just playful?
PLEASE NO IGNORANT PEOPLE AND NO I'M NOT A TROLL JUST WONDERING WHERE I FIT |
| Perfectly normal, never be ashamed of yourself, life is too short. |